As we step into the new year, adopting the habit of keeping promises can be a transformative resolution. According to the dictionary, a promise is “a declaration or assurance that one will do something or that a particular thing will happen.” In Yoruba, it’s known as “Ãlẹ̀rÔ or “adehun.”Keeping promises is simple: show up on time for appointments, follow through on commitments, and honour your word. By doing so, you build trust, credibility, and strengthen your relationships with others. When you make a promise to yourself, it’s a commitment to personal growth and self-improvement. Fulfilling your promises to yourself builds self-discipline and trust.
When you make a promise to someone else, it’s even more critical to keep it. Your reputation and relationships are at stake. Failing to fulfill a promise can damage your credibility and erode trust. Prioritise keeping your promises, and communicate openly and honestly if exceptional circumstances arise.
By keeping your promises, you demonstrate reliability, responsibility, and commitment to your word. This builds trust, credibility, and respect from others. Strive to be a person of your word, and may we all build strong relationships and credibility through our actions and commitments.
Some key takeaways:
– Be reliable: Show up on time and follow through on commitments.
– Communicate openly: If you can’t keep a promise, communicate honestly with the affected parties.
– Prioritise promises: Make keeping promises a habit, and exceptions should be rare.
By incorporating these habits into your daily life, you can build stronger relationships and a reputation for being trustworthy and reliable.
-Chief Abiodun Lasile DL MnbRÂ
Orunto Baalufe Owu KingdomÂ
Chairman, Association of Nigerian Authors (Ogun Chapter)