As a kingmaker, I believe that monarchs and crown heads must prioritise mutual respect and restraint, particularly in public. These leaders are human beings first, and their ascension to traditional stools or thrones does not exempt them from the fundamental principles of decency and respect. In fact, their exalted positions demand even higher standards of behaviour, attitude, and character.
The Weight of Tradition and Expectation
Kings and monarchs are expected to embody the values and traditions of their heritage, and their behaviour is often seen as a reflection of their people and culture. As such, they must be mindful of their actions and words, lest they be perceived as unbecoming or unbefitting of their office. The assumption that spirits guide them and their ways only adds to the weight of expectation, and they must be careful not to desecrate their position through petty squabbles or acrimonious sentiments.
The Challenges of Modern Times
In today’s fast-paced world, monarchs face unique challenges that require a high level of tolerance and perseverance. The speed of transmission and the scrutiny of the public eye can be overwhelming, and it’s essential that they exercise restraint and accommodation to avoid public embarrassment. The fact that their followers and subjects may take things beyond boundaries only adds to the complexity of their role.
A Call to Action:
As a kingmaker, I’m compelled to urge monarchs and their custodians to take heed of these challenges and to prioritise respect, restraint, and wisdom in their words and actions. The throne is not just a symbol of power, but also a symbol of responsibility and accountability. In this era of rapid change and technological advancements, it’s more important than ever that our kings and monarchs remain steadfast in their commitment to tradition, values, and the well-being of their people.
A Voice at the Corridor of the Palace
I offer this perspective as a kingmaker, with the utmost respect and concern for the dignity and integrity of the throne. I believe that by working together, we can ensure that our monarchs and crown heads continue to inspire and uplift their people, while also upholding the values and traditions that have been passed down through generations.
-Chief Abiodun Lasile DL MnbR
Orunto Baalufe Owu Kingdom Abeokuta
